1. Let them know $$ shouldn’t be an issue- a lot of times bridesmaids feel like the role is going to cost them a lot of money, and sometimes it does. Be open with your bridesmaids and let them know they don’t need to drain their savings account on your wedding adventure.

2. Tell them when and where to be – always – Send them emails with dates, times, locations, and the dress code for all wedding events. That way they’ll know the details and can plan ahead.

3. Give them a bridesmaid dress deadline – If not, they’ll wait until a month before to order their dress and they’ll be stuck going to a fabric store, at that point, trying to make it themselves. (I’ve been there, i’ve done that).

4. Remind them to have fun – In the end, being a bridesmaid should be enjoyable. It should be a constant party. Remind them of that as much as you can.

5. Inform them you may get a little Bridezilla-like – It’s bound to happen, so prepare them for when it does. Let them know when you start getting a little anxious or stressed, what they can do to help snap you back to reality.