The most exciting part of being engaged is the adventure that’s about to happen for you and your fiancé. That adventure will include lots of fun decisions, months of planning, and parties that will shower you with love and positive energy. But right after the question is popped and you’ve said your first “I Do”, you may find yourself wondering, “What am I supposed to do next?” To avoid a sudden onset of anxiety, here’s a list of the seven things you should do the very first week you are engaged.

 

1. Create a Budget

You can adjust this later on, but it’s best to come up with a reasonable and rational number to start with.

 

2. Cross Dates off the Calendar

Look ahead at dates for the next two years and cross the ones off the calendar that won’t work for you, your fiancé or your family members. This will help you narrow down when to get married.

 

3. Ask for Help

Before picking your bridesmaids and your MOH, ask a couple of people you trust and can rely on for help. You’ll need them at the start of the wedding adventure to help keep you grounded and stress free.

 

4. Talk to Past Brides

Seek advice from brides who were recently married. Ask them about important tips they have for you that you should remember the first few months you’re engaged.

 

5. Let Your Friends and Family Know

You may be too excited and overwhelmed to remember to tell people about your engagement! So make sure you spread the word.

 

6. Dive into Wedding Planning – But Not Too Fast

It’s okay to start looking at things on Pinterest and coming up with ideas, but remember, just because you just got engaged, doesn’t mean you need to rush all the planning.

 

7. Enjoy Yourself

You’re engaged! Don’t get too lost in the details and the plans that you forget to enjoy yourself. Pop a bottle of champagne and enjoy your engagement bliss.