What Your Bridesmaids Need to Know

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January 29, 2016

If you haven’t picked your bridesmaids yet, I have three major tips for you on how to select who your gal pals for your wedding adventure – so you don’t end up with 17 bridesmaids or choose this person or that person because you think you have to. I also made a video talking about my bridesmaid “elevator trick“.

But once you’ve picked them – what do they need you to tell them? I asked 2,000 brides who got married in 2015 for a little help with the answer to that question

1. Let them know $$ shouldn’t be an issue- a lot of times bridesmaids feel like the role is going to cost them a lot of money, and sometimes it does. Be open with your bridesmaids and let them know they don’t need to drain their savings account on your wedding adventure.

2. Tell them when and where to be – always – Send them emails with dates, times, locations, and the dress code for all wedding events. That way they’ll know the details and can plan ahead.

3. Give them a bridesmaid dress deadline – If not, they’ll wait until a month before to order their dress and they’ll be stuck going to a fabric store, at that point, trying to make it themselves. (I’ve been there, i’ve done that).

4. Remind them to have fun – In the end, being a bridesmaid should be enjoyable. It should be a constant party. Remind them of that as much as you can.

5. Inform them you may get a little Bridezilla-like – It’s bound to happen, so prepare them for when it does. Let them know when you start getting a little anxious or stressed, what they can do to help snap you back to reality.

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