How to Meet Someone at a Wedding

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May 20, 2015

As the wedding season approaches you should know that weddings are one of the BEST places to meet your future significant other. Sparkology, an online dating site for NYC professionals, is here to give you a list of pointers to meet someone special at the next wedding your dance your way to.

For Women:

  1. Separate from other women. Make yourself approachable. It’s hard for one guy to approach 5 bridesmaids at one time.
  2. Bring a pair of flats with you so you aren’t glued to your chair the entire night
  3. Don’t blend in. Wear an edgy dress and show some color!
  4. When a slow song comes on, don’t sit at your table and stare at the ceiling. This is the perfect chance to walk around the room and notice all the other singles.

For Men:

  1. Give your waiter a $20 as soon as the reception starts. He’s your best ally
  2. Play with the cutest little kid you can find; preferably the ring bearer or the flower girl.
  3. Dance with the grandparents of the hottie you’ve been eyeing and let Grandma do the dirty work for you.
  4. Make your way onto the dance floor for those group dances! Show off your playful side.
  5. Use a wedding accessory to stand out and get noticed!
  6. Dress to impress, literally. Rock that pocket square, bow tie or funky socks!

For Both:

  1. Scan the scene before sitting down for the ceremony. Pick your seat wisely! This may be your chance to sit next to that hottie you’ve been staring at.
  2. Ask to be seated at a table with singles!
  3. Talk to all the age groups, you never know who will be the one to set you up or introduce you to someone else!
  4. Keep your alcohol levels in check!

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Gaby works as the Community Director for Sparkology. Sparkology is an elite invite-only dating site for young professionals in New York City. She currently holds a Masters Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Nova Southeastern University and writes the Sparkology blog. While outgoing and passionate are words often used to describe her, she thoroughly enjoys a quiet day on the beach with a good book in hand! 

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