18 Bachelor Party Destinations on Long Island That Will Earn You Legend Status

Hi, Friend! Jen Glantz here. I’m a bestselling author, the first ever bridesmaid for hire and have been hired by hundreds of brides all over the world. Let’s talk about bachelor parties long island.

I’m going to start this off by being real with you: the pressure on the Best Man is brutal. If you’re reading our guide to being a best man, you already know the deal. You’re expected to plan the “weekend of a lifetime” while dealing with fifteen different opinions, budgets, and schedules.

New York has plenty of options, from the city lights to the woods upstate, but for a summer trip, Long Island’s beaches usually win out. But here is the thing I learned the hard way: “Going to Long Island” isn’t as simple as hopping in the car. A few years ago, I didn’t plan ahead. We spent four hours staring at brake lights on Route 27, missed our dinner res, and ended up paying triple for warm beer at a dive bar.

Long Island is huge, expensive, and confusing if you aren’t a local. You need a game plan. We are cutting through the noise to find the best bachelor party destinations long island has to offer—whether you want grit, golf, or the kind of glamour that bankrupts you (in a fun way).

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TL;DR: The Cheat Sheet

If you waited until the last minute and are panic-scrolling, here is the raw truth. Forget what looks cool on Instagram and focus on logistics, or you will hate your life by Saturday afternoon.

• The “Hamptons Tax” is Real: The South Fork operates on a different economy. Expect to pay double for an Airbnb, a burger, or a cover charge compared to the rest of the island.
• Traffic is the Enemy: Route 27 is a parking lot from Memorial Day to Labor Day. A “2-hour drive” is actually 5 hours. Take the train or go in May/September.
• Read the Room: Don’t book a quiet cottage on the North Fork if the groom wants 4 AM bottle service. You’ll get noise complaints and bored friends.
• Getting Around Sucks: Ubers are crazy expensive in the beach towns. Some places, like Fire Island, don’t even allow cars. Plan ahead.

The Reality Check (Read This First)

Before you put a deposit down, look at your group chat. Long Island ranges from the border of Queens (basically NYC) to the end of the world in Montauk. Picking the wrong spot means spending your whole trip in an Uber. For stress-free bachelor party ideas, you have to be honest about who you are inviting.

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If your friends are on a budget, stay away from the Hamptons. Your money disappears fast out there. Look at Western Suffolk or the North Fork—you can live like kings there for half the price.

Also, timing is everything. If you go in July, traffic is a nightmare. For 2026, think about the “shoulder season” (May or September). The weather is still good, but you won’t want to kill each other on the drive out.

Region	Price Tag	The Vibe	Go Here For…
South Fork (Hamptons)	$	Flashy, Loud, Expensive	Clubbing, Status, Golf
North Fork	$	Rustic, Chill, Flannels	Wineries, Breweries, Good Food
Western/Central	$	Rowdy, Casual, Fun	Bar Crawls, Concerts, Adventure
Fire Island	$	Chaotic, No Cars, Beach	Day Drinking, House Parties

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Are you looking for velvet ropes, or a brewery crawl? Long Island is pretty segregated by “scene.” Don’t mix them up.

The Hamptons & Montauk: Big Money, Big Energy

This is the heavy hitter category. If the group has deep pockets and wants to be seen, this is it. Just be ready for the crowds and the sticker shock.

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1. Montauk

Montauk is the party capital. It’s loud, packed, and a total scene. You start day drinking at The Surf Lodge or Gurney’s, then stumble to Memory Motel late at night. It’s the most expensive option on this list ($), and honestly, just take the train because driving there is a pain.

Need more specifics? Check out our list of Montauk bachelor party ideas.

The Montauk Reality Check: A table at a place like The Surf Lodge can have a $3,000 minimum spend. Make sure the guys are cool with dropping $500 each just for afternoon drinks before you book it.

2. East Hampton

East Hampton is less “party animal” and more “sophisticated wealth.” You might see a celebrity, but you’ll definitely pay for the privilege. Dinner at Nick & Toni’s, drinks at The Stephen Talkhouse. Watch out for noise ordinances at rental houses—the neighbors will call the cops.

3. Southampton

Think polo shirts and boat shoes. It’s old-money vibes. Great for golf (try Sebonack if you have connections, otherwise stick to public courses). Hit Coopers Beach by day, Southampton Social Club by night.

4. Sag Harbor

Sag Harbor feels more like a historic whaling village than a club scene. It’s a bit older, a bit more nautical. Grab burgers at Corner Bar, drinks at The American Hotel, and maybe rent a boat. It’s walkable and classy, but pricey.

The North Fork: Chill Vineyards & Breweries

If your group prefers flannel shirts and farm food over nightclubs and bouncers, head to the North Fork.

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5. Greenport

Greenport is awesome. It’s a walkable fishing village that has become super trendy. You’ve got Greenport Harbor Brewing Co., day parties on the dock at Claudio’s, and killer cocktails at Brix & Rye. You can take the train to the end of the line and walk everywhere.

6. Mattituck

This is wine country central. It’s great for day drinking, but dead quiet at night. Go to Macari Vineyards or Harbes Family Farm (they have cornhole and roasted corn). Grab dinner on Love Lane. Just know you’ll need a party bus to get around.

Feature	Vineyard Tour	Brewery Crawl
The Vibe	Classy, Scenic, Seated	Loud, Standing, Games
Dress Code	Collared shirts look better	T-shirts and jeans
Getting Around	Need a Bus (Spread out)	Walkable (in Greenport)
Prime Time	12:00 PM – 5:00 PM	2:00 PM – 10:00 PM

7. Riverhead

Riverhead is a bit more industrial, but it’s a great hub. You’ve got Long Ireland Beer Company and Montauk Distilling Co. right there. Plus, if you want to watch cars smash into each other, the Riverhead Raceway is a solid time. Hotels are cheaper here, too.

8. Jamesport

Very rural, very quiet. Good for a low-key group that wants to kayak on the bay and hit up Jamesport Farm Brewery. You definitely need a designated driver here; everything is spread out.

Central & Western: Nightlife for Normal People

These towns are where the locals party. High energy, way cheaper than the Hamptons, and easy to get to by train. These are great alternative New York bachelor party ideas that keep the wallet happy.

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9. Huntington Village

Honestly, Huntington has the best bar scene on the island outside of the city. It’s rock & roll and packed on weekends. See a show at The Paramount, then hit Main Street—there are dozens of bars in a four-block radius. Ubers are everywhere.

10. Patchogue

Patchogue has totally reinvented itself. It’s right on the river and attracts a younger crowd. Start at the massive Blue Point Brewery campus, then just walk down Main Street. The train drops you right in town.

11. Long Beach

Surf culture meets city vibes. It’s an easy train ride from NYC. Do a beach day, then hit the West End (Beech Street) for dive bars like Shine’s. It gets rowdy in the best way.

12. Farmingdale

A classic college-town feel with a mix of young professionals. Croxley’s for wings, The Library for drinks. It’s right next to the train station.

The “Ronkonkoma Line” Hack: If your buddies are coming from all over, Farmingdale is the perfect meeting point. Guys from NYC take the train (45 mins), guys from out east drive and park at the station. No drunk driving, and the bars are literally across the street.

Adventure & Sports

For the groom who wants to compete rather than just sit on a barstool.

13. Bethpage

If the groom loves golf, this is Mecca. The Black Course at Bethpage State Park is world-famous. Warning: If you aren’t a NY resident with a reservation system account, you might have to sleep in your car overnight to snag a tee time. It’s part of the experience.

14. Captree State Park

The “beers and bait” option. Head to Captree and rent a private charter boat for Fluke or Bass. It’s chill, outdoorsy, and affordable if you split the cost.

15. Port Jefferson

A cool harbor town. You can drink at Port Jeff Brewing, or take the ferry across to Connecticut to gamble at Foxwoods or Mohegan Sun. It’s hilly, but scenic.

Islands & Escapes

Want to feel like you actually left the state? Try these.

Destination	How to get there	Car Situation	The Headache
Fire Island	Ferry (Bay Shore/Sayville)	No Cars Allowed	Dragging coolers in a wagon
Shelter Island	Ferry (North/South Fork)	Cars are fine	Ferry lines are long in summer

16. Fire Island (Ocean Beach)

Fire Island is a world of its own. No cars, just wagons and walking. Take the ferry from Bay Shore. Drink Rocket Fuels at Flynn’s. It’s chaotic fun, but timing the ferries is a logistical challenge.

17. Shelter Island

Secluded and fancy. They call it the “French Riviera of LI” (which is a stretch, but it’s nice). Sunset Beach Hotel is the spot. You can only get there by ferry.

18. Jones Beach

The classic summer tailgate. Grab tickets for a concert at Northwell Health Theater, park in the lot, grill out, and enjoy the show. Just make sure you have a DD, because leaving that parking lot takes forever.

How to Outsource the Headache

Look, planning a bachelor party on Long Island is stressful. Between ferry schedules, train times, and reservation-only clubs, the Best Man usually ends up being a travel agent instead of having fun. Understanding bachelor itinerary psychology is key—most plans fail because they are too rigid.

This is where Bridesmaid for Hire comes in. Yeah, I know the name sounds like it’s strictly for the bridal party, but hear me out. They have expanded into a full-blown wedding support system, including Bachelor and Bachelorette Party Planning Tools. If you are drowning in spreadsheets or trying to figure out how to move 15 guys from a vineyard to a steakhouse without losing anyone, you don’t have to do it alone.

Think of them as a “shadow planner.” They handle the logistics, the bookings, and the problems, so you can take the credit for a legendary weekend. You want to be drinking a beer, not arguing with an Airbnb host about the AC unit.

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The “Shadow Planner” Effect: Imagine getting a text that the party bus canceled while you’re on the golf course. Instead of you spending 2 hours on the phone fixing it, a pro handles it, books a backup, and you never even miss a swing.

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Final Thoughts

The perfect spot depends entirely on your groom. Ignore the hype and pick the place that fits your budget and your group’s vibe. When looking at the best bachelor party destinations long island has, just remember: a little planning now saves you a lot of misery on the Long Island Expressway later.