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Wedding Help That Helps You Actually Enjoy Your Wedding

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planning a wedding is hard

Does this sound familiar?

  • You’re feeling overwhelmed by the wedding process and don’t know what to do next 
  • Everyone is giving you advice but you’re exhausted trying to figure out whom to listen to
  • You want to enjoy your wedding adventure but you’re feeling too anxious, stressed, and nervous
  • You’re not sure how to deal with pop-up problems, challenges, or family and friend drama
  • You want to work with a professional you can trust, rely on, and go to for everything 

You’re in the right place! We have a variety of unique packages just for you.

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What can we help you with?

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Personalized Wedding Vows

The best gift you can give your partner on the wedding day are memorable vows that they’ll never forget. But writing those vows can feel tough and the procrastination starts to take over. We have your back! Our vow writing tool asks you specific and targeted questions to write your personalized vows for you in minutes. 

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WANT BEHIND-THE-SCENES SUPPORT?

Wedding Day-of Coordination

We’re there for your pre-wedding to plan your to-do list, create your day-of itinerary, help with pop-up problems, and communicate with your vendor. Skip Google searching, because you’ll have us to call and email when you need anything. Plus, on your wedding day, we take over all the details so you and your loved ones can enjoy every second of the celebration.

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NEED THE SUPPORT OF A BRIDESMAID?

Hire a Bridesmaid

 

Consider us actual bridesmaids. We’re there for you throughout your entire pre-wedding adventure, helping you manage the chaos and your to-do list. We’ll also be there for you on the day of the wedding, walking down the aisle & standing up beside you at the altar as your go-to gal pal & professional bridesmaid. This is a 100% private service. Nobody ever has to know you hired us.

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Get Personalized Vows

Sharing the most perfect wedding vows on your big day is something that might be important to you. But figuring out how to tell your love story, what details to include, and how to make it all sound anything but generic, can be tough. We’ll write you fully-custom and incredibly memorable vows – in minutes, yes minutes.

A one-of-a-kind AI color analysis service that helps your colors look perfectly matched to your natural features so you feel confident forever.

We are your wedding support system

More than a bridesmaid

Personal Assistant

We take care of the dirty work so that you and your fiance, friends and family can enjoy the party

Support System

Call us with pop-up problems, decisions or last-minute to-do lists and we’ll give you expert unbiased advice.

Social Director

We’re here to help plan the pre-wedding parties: like bachelorette and bridal shower.

Peace Keeper

What’s a wedding without family/friend drama? We’ve seen it all and have solutions to ease tension.

LOL-Worthy Books

Read Jen Glantz’s best-selling books about the crazy things we do to find love, what it’s like to be the world’s first Bridesmaid for Hire, how to deal with being single when all of your friends are engaged and what happens when you let a million strangers vote + plan your future wedding.

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Always a Bridesmaid for Hire book cover by Jen Glantz

"Funny and at times touching, this is a thoroughly modern story about love and youth, right down to the open, not necessarily happy-ever-after ending. Quirky and bighearted.”

– Kirkus Reviews

My Favorite Things

Wondering what must-have items I recommend the most?

I’ve got you. Enjoy curated lists of everything from wedding gifts that are memorable and unique to outfits that will stand-out and fit any dress code. Plus, comfy & stylish shoes, trendy accessories, and so much more.

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Dresses

50 wedding guest outfits under $150

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Accessories

Head-to-toe must-haves to style your look for any dress code

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Gifts

The most popular wedding gifts for 2024

Something Extra to Love

1-800-BRIDESMAID

Read the weekly newsletter from Bridesmaid for Hire, 1-800-Bridesmaid, to hear about real stories, from strangers, who need advice on love, life, friendship, and so much more.

The Newlywed Card Game

Looking for the perfect wedding gift for someone you adore? Grab The Newlywed Card Game. It's a fun and interactive game they can play on their honeymoon or future date nights.