Hi, Friend! Jen Glantz here. I’m a bestselling author, the first ever bridesmaid for hire and have been hired by hundreds of brides all over the world. Let’s talk about bachelorette scavenger hunt ideas.
You know that specific, painful silence that happens when you mix the bride’s college roommate, her work bestie, and her cousin from Ohio in one room? It’s palpable. You need an icebreaker, and you need it fast.
While the idea of a scavenger hunt might sound a little “middle school camp,” data from PlayTours suggests it’s actually the secret weapon for forcing people to bond. It drags everyone out of their shells, gets them off their phones, and creates inside jokes that last the whole weekend.
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I saw this happen in real-time last year. The group started the night stiff, polite, and checking Instagram every three minutes. We launched a simple photo challenge, and within twenty minutes, the cousin and the college roommate were sprinting down the street together, laughing hysterically while trying to find a stranger to serenade the bride. The awkwardness didn’t just fade; it vanished.
You need that energy for your trip. But you need to pick the right kind of hunt. Before diving into the specific games, it helps to review some general tips for planning a bachelorette party to make sure the logistics flow as smoothly as the fun.
Here is a guide to saving your party from boredom, without forcing anyone to do anything too embarrassing.
If you’re the Maid of Honor and you’re panic-scrolling for ideas five minutes before the Uber arrives, here is the gist:
Match the Energy: Don’t force a shy bride to talk to strangers. Just don’t.
Logistics are King: Decide right now—are we walking, driving, or staying put? Dragging 10 girls into Ubers every 15 minutes is a mood killer.
Be Realistic: Do you actually have time to print clues and buy props? If not, stick to a digital list.
Ask for Help: You don’t have to do this alone. Delegate or hire a pro.
Please, for the love of all things holy, do not just grab a random list off the internet and hope for the best. A scavenger hunt is only fun if it matches the group’s personality. Understanding the wedding scavenger hunt psychology helps you pick challenges that actually motivate your friends rather than annoying them.
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Is she the main character, or does she want to hide in a hole when people look at her?
The Extrovert: Loves karaoke, loves attention. The Move: The “Hashtag Hijack” or anything involving strangers.
The Introvert: Gets anxious in crowds. The Move: The “Love Story Timeline” played privately inside the Airbnb with just her best friends.
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Most of these are free, but some require buying drinks or props. Make sure everyone is clear on the budget before you start so nobody gets stuck with a $50 bar tab they didn’t ask for. If the game involves buying items, consider doubling them as bachelorette party favors to save money and kill two birds with one stone.
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Factor |
Low Cost Option |
Medium Cost Option |
High Cost Option |
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Game Type |
Photo Challenges / Selfies |
Bar Bingo / Drink Hunt |
Limo Scavenger Hunt |
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Supplies |
Smartphones (Free) |
Printed Cards & Pens ($20) |
Custom T-Shirts & Props ($100+) |
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Activity Cost |
Walking/Sightseeing (Free) |
Buying 1-2 Drinks ($30/pp) |
Uber/Limo Rental ($50+/pp) |
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I’ve broken these down by “vibe” so you can find what fits your group best.
Best for: Groups who are ready to party and aren’t afraid to talk to people.
Find men who match specific descriptions and get a photo. Examples: A guy with the Groom’s name, a guy wearing way too much cologne, or a guy who can sing a line from the bride’s favorite song.
The goal isn’t just to drink; it’s to find specific types of drinks. A blue cocktail, a beer from the bride’s home state, or a drink with an umbrella. (Pace yourselves, obviously).
The bride wears a white shirt or sash. The goal? Get signatures from specific people: a bouncer, a bartender, a couple married for 20+ years, or a DJ. It’s a great souvenir for her to keep.
Perfect if your group is a little more shy. You aren’t looking for people; you’re looking for things. A neon beer sign from the 90s, a broken pool cue, a jukebox playing Journey, or a coaster with a phone number on it.
Best for: Pregnant brides, dry weddings, or just a chill daytime activity. If you need more non-drinking activities, explore our list of clean bachelorette party games.
Spread some joy. Tasks include buying a coffee for a stranger, leaving a nice note on a windshield, or helping a tourist take a photo. It’s surprisingly fun and leaves everyone in a good mood.
Split into teams and find physical representations of the wedding rhyme (Something Old, New, Borrowed, Blue) in store windows or nature. Snap photos of each.
If you’re in a cool city like Nashville or Austin, make a list of murals or statues. The group has to find them and pose. It’s basically a free sightseeing tour that doubles as a game.
Instead of bars, hunt for caffeine. Find a latte with heart art, a pastry that looks like a ring, or a barista with a mustache.
Best for: Groups glued to their phones (so, everyone).
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A list of specific selfies to take: With a police officer, in a bathroom mirror with 5 people squeezed in, or making a “duck face.”
Create a unique hashtag. The group has to get strangers to do a TikTok dance or pose and post it (or just record it) using the hashtag. High embarrassment factor, but hilarious results.
The MOH prints out 5 old photos of the bride. The group has to find locations or props to recreate these photos as accurately as possible.
Record 10-second clips of strangers giving marriage advice. Ask a couple married for 50 years, a divorcee, or even a child. The advice is usually gold.
Best for: Slumber party vibes and saving money.
Hide clues or funny “red flags” around the house representing the bride’s dating history, leading to a final prize (The Groom). Warning: Only do this if the bride has a sense of humor about her exes.
A classic seated game. Call out items like “A receipt from 3 months ago,” “A mint,” or “A condom.” First person to pull it from their bag wins.
The Purse Raid Checklist (Points System):
5 Points: A breath mint or gum.
10 Points: A receipt from a fast-food restaurant.
20 Points: A bobby pin (that actually works).
50 Points: A photo of the bride and groom printed out.
100 Points: An item that is older than the bride.
Guests bring lingerie gifts, and the MOH hides them around the Airbnb. The bride hunts them down, and for every piece she finds, she has to guess who bought it.
Hide cocktail ingredients around the kitchen. The group has to find the vodka, the mixer, and the garnish to “unlock” the toast.
Best for: Focusing on the couple.
Print out small heads of the groom and hide them all over the hotel or Airbnb. It’s weirdly funny to find his face inside the fridge or on a lamp.
Hide clues that correspond to dates or memories. “Look where you might find the date of their first kiss.”
The bride answers questions about the groom. If she gets it right, she gets a clue. If she gets it wrong, she takes a drink (or does a dare).
Hide 50 cheap plastic rings around the party area. Whoever is wearing the most rings at the end of the night wins a prize.
Best for: Competitive groups with energy to burn.
Find and photograph items that start with every letter A-Z. It’s harder than it looks and takes up a good chunk of time.
Give teams $10 and 20 minutes in a thrift store. They have to find items to create a “wedding dress” on one team member.
If you want to look extra professional, print QR codes and tape them around the area. Scanning the code gives a riddle to the next spot.
Teams have to find objects that perfectly match the wedding color palette (bring swatches).
The hybrid option. You find an item OR you do a dare to check off the box.
Example: Find a red shoe OR dance on a table. (This is great because the introverts can just find the shoe).
Sample “Dare or Do” Card:
Box 1: Find a coaster with a beer logo OR Sing the chorus of “Wannabe” by the Spice Girls loud enough for the table next to you to hear.
Box 2: Find a blue car OR Ask a stranger for their best marriage advice and record it.
Box 3: Find a street sign with the letter “M” OR Do 10 jumping jacks in the middle of the sidewalk.
Look, planning this stuff is fun in theory, but in practice? It’s stressful. As the Maid of Honor, you usually end up holding the checklist, herding cats, and making sure nobody cries—which means you don’t actually get to enjoy the party.
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This is exactly why Bridesmaid for Hire exists.
Jen Glantz started this because she realized bachelorette parties often turn best friends into exhausted event planners. If you want to just show up, drink the champagne, and let someone else handle the logistics, you can literally hire a professional bridesmaid to run the game for you.
If you are worried about how to deal with an unruly wedding party during the game, having a professional moderator can save your sanity.
How Bridesmaid for Hire helps:
The Plan: They have tools to map out the games so you don’t have to start from scratch.
The Support: A hired pro can handle the “pop-up problems” (like a closed bar or a lost phone) so you don’t have to.
The Ultimate Hype Woman: They act as the “mood manager,” ensuring the game stays fun and doesn’t feel like a chore.
The best scavenger hunt isn’t the one with the most complex rules; it’s the one that makes your specific group of friends laugh. Pick the option that fits the vibe, don’t stress if things go off the rails a little bit, and remember: the goal is just to celebrate the bride.
Now go protect your party from boredom. You’ve got this.
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