25 Bachelorette Drinking Games That Will Actually Make Your Night Unforgettable

Let’s be honest: walking into an Airbnb living room full of girls you’ve mostly only stalked on Instagram is terrifying. You’re standing there holding your weekender bag, staring at the bride’s college roommate, and praying the next 48 hours aren’t just awkward small talk about work.

According to With Joy, games are pretty much the lifeline of these weekends. They force those bonds to happen quickly so you can skip the polite pleasantries and get to the fun part.

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I experienced this firsthand when I walked into a silent hotel suite where half the group was sorority sisters and the other half were work colleagues. The silence was loud. But one round of a stupid, structured game saved us from an entire weekend of painful conversations. Before we dive into the specific games, it’s always helpful to check out an ultimate bachelorette party planning guide just to make sure your timeline actually has room for this stuff.

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TL;DR

Look, if you are currently in the Uber on the way to the liquor store and just need the spark notes, here is the deal.

• Read the room first: Do not plan raunchy games if the bride’s conservative aunt is there. Just don’t.

• Check your logistics: Avoid games that require poster board if you only brought a carry-on. Opt for apps or verbal games.

• Pace the drinking: Make sure there are mocktails or water. You want a buzz, not a blackout before the 7 PM dinner reservation.

• Consider the venue: Keep the loud, screaming games in the private suite. Save the scavenger hunts for the bar.

• Hire help if needed: If being the “Game Master” sounds like a nightmare, there are pros who can do it for you.

Focus on logistics and comfort first, and the games will be a tool for fun rather than a massive stress headache.

Before You Buy the Props: Strategic Considerations

You might feel tempted to buy every game you see on TikTok, but pausing to evaluate the actual situation will save you money and second-hand embarrassment. I always tell MOHs to look at four things before finalizing the itinerary.

Skipping this step is usually why you end up with awkward silences. By taking a moment to assess the vibe, you ensure people actually want to play.

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The “Vibe” and Comfort Level

You have to know who is in the room. A group of childhood best friends has a totally different boundary system than a mix of work colleagues and future in-laws. I recommend skipping the “Dirty Secrets” style games if the future sister-in-law is super religious.

Instead, opt for clean bachelorette party games that won’t make Grandma blush. You don’t want anyone checking their watch and wishing they were home.

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Here is a cheat sheet to match the game to the guests:

Group Dynamic	Recommended Vibe	Best Game Choices	Games to Avoid
The “Mixed Bag” (Work friends, cousins, college BFFs)	Low-stakes, verbal interaction, getting-to-know-you.	Two Truths and a Lie, Post-It Note Memory	Dirty Pictionary, Ex Files
The “Ride or Dies” (Childhood friends, close squad)	Nostalgic, high-energy, revealing.	Never Have I Ever, Roast the Bride	Generic Icebreakers (too boring)
The Multigenerational (Includes Mom, Aunts, Grandma)	Wholesome, sentimental, skill-based.	Prosecco Pong, Wedding Trivia, Ban the Word	Lingerie Parade, Thunderstruck

Logistics and Prep Work

Ask yourself: “How much work is this?” If you are flying to a destination, packing bulky props is a hassle you will regret.

High-prep games work well for a stationary night at an Airbnb, but stick to phone-based ideas if you are bouncing between restaurants and clubs.

The “Drink Factor” (Pacing)

Is the goal to get everyone tipsy immediately, or to maintain a mild buzz over six hours? I’ve seen too many nights end early because the group played “Power Hour” at 4 PM.

Always ensure you have non-alcoholic options available. Consider mixing in non-drinking bachelorette party games so the designated drivers or non-drinkers don’t feel left out. It’s a marathon, not a sprint.

Venue Appropriateness

Context is everything. A loud, screaming game of “Never Have I Ever” is perfect for the hotel suite.

However, trying to play that same game in a crowded bar just results in shouting and confusion. Save the verbal games for the pre-game or the late-night pizza wind-down.

The Icebreakers (Getting the Group Synced)

Use these on the first night when people are still being polite. Starting with low-stakes interaction helps bridge the gap between the bride’s high school friends and her work friends who have never met.

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1. Two Truths and a Lie (Drinking Edition)

A classic for a reason. It requires zero setup. Each person states three facts about themselves, and the group votes on the lie. If the group guesses correctly, the liar drinks. If they are wrong, everyone else drinks.

Pro Tip: If you’re the one sharing, make your “Lie” sound boring and your “Truths” sound wild.

• Statement A: “I once backpacked through Peru alone.” (Truth)

• Statement B: “I have never broken a bone.” (Lie – you broke your arm in 3rd grade)

• Statement C: “I was an extra in a music video.” (Truth)

• Result: Most people will guess C is the lie because it sounds cool. If they guess C, you win.

2. The “Introduction” Roulette

This fosters a friendly environment. Sit in a circle and spin a bottle; whoever it lands on must introduce the person to their right and share a funny story about how they know the bride. If they forget a name or stall for more than 10 seconds, they take a drink.

3. Post-It Note Memory

I love this one for a sentimental indoor vibe. Everyone writes a memory with the bride on a Post-it and sticks it to a wall. The bride reads them aloud and guesses who wrote it. Incorrect guess? Bride drinks. Correct guess? The writer drinks.

4. Most Likely To…

This brings out a roasting vibe that works anywhere. The group counts to three and points at the person most likely to do a specific act, like “sleeping through the wedding.” The person with the most fingers pointed at them drinks.

The Classics (Nostalgic & High Energy)

These are the games you turn to when the energy is dipping or you need to get the party started. They rely on muscle memory—everyone knows how to play, so you don’t have to spend 20 minutes explaining rules.

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5. Prosecco Pong

It’s just beer pong, but make it classy. Set up plastic champagne coupes in a triangle, fill them with sparkling wine, and try to sink the ping pong balls.

If you want to keep the vibe upscale, check out other classy bachelorette party games that feel more “Hamptons” and less “Frat House.”

6. Never Have I Ever

Best played in a private setting so you don’t air dirty laundry to strangers. Players hold up five fingers and admit things they haven’t done. If you’ve done it, put a finger down and sip.

Question Level	Vibe Check	Example Prompt
Level 1: Safe	Good for warming up or mixed company.	“Never have I ever used a fake ID.”
Level 2: Spicy	Best for close friends after a few drinks.	“Never have I ever ghosted a date after seeing their apartment.”
Level 3: Nuclear	Only for the “Ride or Die” crew late at night.	“Never have I ever hooked up with a coworker.”

7. Flip Cup

Great for high-energy moments, ideally outdoors or somewhere spills are okay. Two teams race to chug their drink and flip the cup upside down on the table edge. It gets competitive fast.

8. Medusa

Fast-paced and requires no props. Everyone starts with their heads down. On the count of three, look up and stare at another player. If you make direct eye contact with someone, you both scream “Medusa!” and drink.

9. Roxanne (or Thunderstruck)

The ultimate pre-game song ritual. Play “Roxanne” by The Police and split the room into two groups who drink on specific lyrics (like “Red Light”), or play AC/DC’s “Thunderstruck” and drink every time you hear “Thunder.”

Funny Bachelorette Games (Naughty & Nice)

These usually result in the best photos. I suggest using these when the group is comfortable enough to get a little weird.

10. Quiz the Groom

This requires some prep before the trip, but it’s worth it. Record the groom answering questions about the bride, then play the video for her. If she guesses his answer correctly, the group drinks. If she’s wrong, she drinks.

Sample Questions:

1. Who said “I love you” first? (If the bride says her, but the video shows him saying “Definitely me,” she drinks.)

2. What is her most annoying habit? (Get ready for laughs/groans.)

3. What is her go-to Starbucks order?

4. What body part of hers do you love the most?

11. Dirty Pictionary / Sculpting

Creative and immature fun. Use standard drawing or sculpting rules (Play-Doh works great), but all the prompts are wedding or honeymoon themed, usually leaning toward the naughty side.

12. Lingerie Parade Guessing Game

A classic. Guests bring a piece of lingerie as a gift. The bride opens them one by one and has to guess who gave it to her. If she’s wrong, she drinks. If she’s right, the gifter drinks.

13. Drink If…

Super casual and inclusive. You just read from a list of prompts like “Drink if you are wearing Spanx” or “Drink if you’re single.” It’s easy to organize on the fly.

14. The “Ex” Files

Perfect for late-night bonding over shared trauma. Guests anonymously write down a cringe-worthy story about an ex. The bride reads them aloud. If the group can’t guess the author, the storyteller drinks to reveal themselves.

Out on the Town (Public Interaction)

These are designed for bar hopping. They force you to interact with strangers, which usually makes the night feel more like an adventure.

15. Bachelorette Scavenger Hunt

A list of tasks with point values. You might have to get a selfie with a bald guy or find someone with the groom’s name. Failing an attempted task? Take a drink.

Task Difficulty	Points Awarded	The Challenge	Proof Required
Easy	5 Points	Find another Bachelorette party.	A group selfie with both brides.
Medium	10 Points	Get a stranger to buy you a drink.	A photo of the drink in hand.
Hard	20 Points	Find a guy with the same first name as the Groom.	A photo of his ID (cover the last name!).
Legendary	50 Points	Get the DJ to shout out the bride.	Video evidence.

16. Sticker Stalker

Stealthy and mischievous. Each girl gets a sheet of stickers and must secretly stick them on strangers without being noticed. If you get caught, you finish your drink.

17. Ban the Word

A passive game that lasts all night. Choose a forbidden word like “Wedding” or “Bride.” Anyone who slips up and says it must take a sip.

18. Stop Light

Encourages wing-woman cooperation. Guests wear green, yellow, or red accessories to indicate relationship status. The group drinks based on interactions—like “Reds” drinking in celebration if a “Green” gets a number.

19. Photo Challenge

Great for social media lovers. Players recreate memes or famous photos in public settings. The bride judges the best photo and assigns a shot to the loser.

Card & App Based (Modern & Low Effort)

I love these for when you run out of conversation topics or just want structured fun without having to pack a bunch of supplies.

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20. For The Girls (Card Game)

Structured fun in a box. It includes categories like “Truth or Dare” and “Never Have I Ever.” You just pull a card and do what it says.

21. Heads Up! (App)

Fast, loud, and ideal for waiting in line or riding in an Uber. One person holds the phone to their forehead while the group gives clues. Lose a round? Take a drink.

22. Cards Against Humanity

For the group with a darker sense of humor. The judge picks the funniest answer card, and the winner gets to pick someone to drink.

23. What Do You Meme?

Like Cards Against Humanity, but for the internet-obsessed. Match the funniest caption to the meme image.

A Winning Round Scenario:

• The Image: The famous “Disaster Girl” (little girl smiling while a house burns down).

• Player A’s Card: “When you leave the bar without paying your tab.”

• Player B’s Card: “Me watching my ex get back with his toxic girlfriend.”

• The Verdict: Player B wins. Player A drinks.

24. These Cards Will Get You Drunk

The name says it all. Draw a card, follow the rule (like “Pick a mate” or “Drink if you’re the shortest”). It keeps the focus purely on the drinking.

25. The Newlywed Card Game (Pre-Wedding Edition)

Great for a cozy night. The bride answers questions about her relationship. If the bridesmaids guess her answer correctly, she drinks. If they miss, they drink.

The “Bridesmaid for Hire” Solution

Reading through a list of 25 games might leave you feeling excited, but it also might make you feel a little overwhelmed. Who is buying the props? Who is going to remember the rules after three tequilas? Who is going to mediate if things get too competitive?

This is where Bridesmaid for Hire steps in.

The Professional Party Starter

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Removing the Guesswork

Instead of scrolling Pinterest for hours, you can use their curated resources. The “Bachelor and Bachelorette Party Planning Tool” helps structure the itinerary so you aren’t scrambling for a deck of cards five minutes before the Uber arrives.

Drama Diffusion

Drinking games can spark drama. A professional bridesmaid acts as an unbiased voice of reason, ensuring a competitive game doesn’t turn into a feud. Whether you need a full-service professional or just resources like their Newlywed Card Game, they ensure the focus stays on fun, not stress.

Final Thoughts

Planning the entertainment doesn’t have to be a nightmare. By picking a few games that fit your specific group—and maybe bringing in a pro if you’re overwhelmed—you ensure the weekend is memorable for the right reasons.

Whether you choose public challenges or cozy games in the hotel suite, the goal is connection (and maybe a little buzz). Pick your favorites, pack your bags, and get ready to celebrate.