Hi, Friend! Jen Glantz here. I’m a bestselling author and the first ever bridesmaid for hire. Let’s talk about how to write a heartfelt engagement proposal speech and examples.
According to a recent survey, 85% of couples consider the proposal speech to be one of the most memorable parts of their engagement. The right words can transform an already special moment into an unforgettable memory. Here are five distinct proposal speech examples to inspire your own perfect moment.
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Our story began three years ago at Sarah’s birthday party. You were wearing that blue dress that matched your eyes, and I couldn’t look away. Remember our first date at Café Milano? I was so nervous I knocked over my water glass twice. But somehow, you agreed to a second date, and a third.
I treasure each chapter we’ve written together—the weekend trips to the coast, our impromptu dance parties in the kitchen, the way you held my hand through my father’s illness. You’ve seen me at my worst and somehow loved me even more.
I remember exactly when I knew you were the one. We were walking home from dinner, and it started raining. Instead of running for cover, you grabbed my hands and insisted we dance right there on the sidewalk. As I watched the raindrops catching in your eyelashes, I realized I wanted to dance with you in every storm life might bring.
Each day with you has been better than the last. Your kindness amazes me—how you remember the barista’s name, how you call your grandmother every Sunday, how you see the best in everyone you meet.
You’ve taught me patience and shown me what real partnership means. With you, I’ve become the person I always hoped to be. I can’t imagine writing the next chapters without you.
So today, I’m asking: Will you continue our story with me? Will you make me the happiest person alive and marry me?
From the moment we met, you’ve changed my life in ways I never thought possible. Today, I want to share five reasons why I know you’re the one I want to spend my life with.
First, your compassion. I’ve watched you drop everything to help a friend in need, volunteer at the animal shelter even after grueling workdays, and show kindness to strangers when no one is watching. Your heart has no limits, and it inspires me daily.
Second, your strength. You’ve faced challenges that would break most people, yet you emerge each time with greater resilience. Remember when you lost your job last year? Instead of giving up, you pursued your passion and created something even better. Your determination shows me anything is possible.
Third, your humor. You make me laugh harder than anyone I’ve ever known. Whether it’s your terrible dance moves in the grocery store or your spot-on impression of my mother, life with you is filled with joy. Even on our worst days, you find something to smile about.
Fourth, your intelligence. Our late-night discussions about everything from quantum physics to philosophy challenge me to think deeper. Your curiosity about the world around you never ceases to amaze me.
Finally, your love. You love me completely, without reservation, even knowing all my flaws. You’ve taught me what unconditional love truly means.
For these reasons and countless more, I can’t imagine my life without you. You are my best friend, my confidant, my home. Will you marry me?
Standing here today, I’m not just thinking about our past or present—I’m seeing our future unfolding before us. The life we could build together shines so bright in my imagination that I can’t wait another day to start making it real.
I see us in that Victorian house we admired last fall, the one with the wraparound porch and space for your art studio. I imagine Sunday mornings with coffee and crosswords, and evenings in the backyard watching our children chase fireflies while we sip wine and share stories from our day.
I envision us traveling to those places pinned on our map—walking the streets of Tokyo, watching sunrise at Machu Picchu, and finally taking that cooking class in Florence. With you by my side, every destination feels like an adventure waiting to happen.
I picture us weathering life’s inevitable storms together—supporting each other through career changes, celebrating promotions, nursing each other through illnesses, and holding hands through losses. Whatever challenges arise, I know we’ll face them as a team.
I dream of growing old with you, gray-haired and wrinkled, still making each other laugh, still holding hands, still finding wonder in everyday moments. I want to look back after fifty years together and know we’ve created a life abundant with love and shared experiences.
This future isn’t just a daydream—it’s a promise I want to make to you today. I choose you as my partner for all that lies ahead. Will you choose me too? Will you marry me and make this future our reality?
When I told my friends I was planning to propose, they suggested writing something profound and poetic. But we both know I’m the person who once gave a best man speech with a Star Wars reference every thirty seconds. So instead, I’m going with something true to us—a little humor, a lot of love, and absolutely zero Shakespeare quotes.
Remember our first date? I showed up twenty minutes late because I got lost, then spilled salsa all over my shirt. Somehow, you agreed to a second date, proving either your incredible compassion or questionable judgment. Either way, I’m grateful.
Then there was our camping disaster last summer—when the tent collapsed at 2 AM during that thunderstorm, and we ended up sleeping in the car surrounded by soggy equipment. Most couples would’ve been miserable, but we laughed until we cried.
Even our fights are uniquely us. Like when we didn’t speak for an hour because I insisted Die Hard is definitely a Christmas movie, and you remained stubbornly wrong. Or when you threatened to move out because I kept using your fancy face cream as hand lotion.
Through three years, forty-seven date nights, eighteen Netflix binges, three apartments, two job changes, one pandemic, and that disastrous attempt at salsa dancing lessons, one thing has remained constant—life with you is extraordinary. Even ordinary Tuesday nights become adventures when we’re together.
I can’t promise we won’t face more collapsed tents or disagreements about movie genres. But I can promise to face them all with humor, patience, and unwavering love. Will you marry me and continue this ridiculous, wonderful journey?
Love, they say, is a journey. Ours began on an ordinary day that became extraordinary the moment you smiled at me. Like the first light of dawn breaking through darkness, you illuminated my world in ways I never imagined possible.
You are the rhythm to which my heart beats, the air that fills my lungs, the dreams that dance behind my eyelids at night. With you, I’ve discovered parts of myself I never knew existed—depths of feeling, heights of joy, breadths of possibility that seemed unimaginable before you.
Our love is like the ocean—sometimes calm and serene, reflecting perfect blue skies; sometimes wild and tempestuous, testing our strength. But always, always deep, powerful, and life-sustaining.
In your eyes, I’ve found my home. In your laugh, I’ve found my joy. In your arms, I’ve found my peace. The touch of your hand against mine speaks volumes that words could never capture. The symphony of our shared silence contains melodies more beautiful than any song.
Every day with you is a verse in the poem of our love—some lines flowing with effortless grace, others hard-won through struggle and growth. Together, we’ve written chapters of adventure, healing, discovery, and deep, abiding connection.
Now, I stand before you, offering my heart as completely as one soul can offer itself to another. I ask for the honor of continuing this poem for all our days to come, writing each line together, creating a masterpiece of shared love.
Will you marry me, my love, my heart, my home?
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