25 Long Island Bachelorette Party Venues & Activities That Are Actually Worth the Hype

Hi, Friend! Jen Glantz here. I’m a bestselling author, the first ever bridesmaid for hire and have been hired by hundreds of brides all over the world. Let’s talk about bachelorette parties long island.

Look, the stats say destination bachelorette parties are blowing up right now, and Long Island is apparently a top contender. But I didn’t need a survey from The Knot to tell me that; I felt it in my soul last month while trying to herd eight girls through Montauk. It’s beautiful, yes. But navigating the logistics? That’s a whole different beast.

We had an amazing time—seeing my best friend’s face light up during our sunset sail made every headache worth it—but I learned the hard way that if you’re planning a Long Island bachelorette party, you can’t just wing it. Preparation isn’t just “nice to have,” it’s survival.

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This guide covers the stuff they don’t tell you on Instagram about pulling off the perfect Long Island weekend.

If you’re still torn between New York and somewhere else, take a look at our list of East Coast bachelorette weekend ideas to see how LI stacks up against spots like Newport or Charleston.

TL;DR: The Cheat Sheet

Planning a weekend on Long Island takes more than just bookmarking a cute hotel. The island is huge, and one logistical mistake can leave you stuck in a car for three hours. Here is the stuff you absolutely need to know before you Venmo anyone for a Long Island bachelorette.

• Geography is Everything: You cannot do brunch in Huntington and dinner in Montauk on the same day. Seriously, don’t try it. The island is over 100 miles long and the traffic is legendary (in a bad way). Pick a lane: South Fork (Hamptons), North Fork (Vineyards), or Central/West.

• Money Talks: The Hamptons in July will hurt your wallet. If you want the vibe without the bankruptcy, look at the North Fork or book during the “shoulder season” (May or September are gorgeous).

• Vibe Check: Decide early if this is a wellness retreat, a clubbing weekend, or a wine tour. Trying to mix all three is a nightmare because everything is so spread out.

• The Uber Situation: Rideshares are super unreliable on the East End. If you plan on drinking and hopping between towns, rent a sprinter van. It saves lives.

The Logistics Reality Check

Before we get to the fun stuff, we have to talk about the landscape. Long Island is tricky. You might look at a map and think two towns are close, but Route 27 in the summer turns a 10-mile drive into a 90-minute parking lot. To make sure the bride actually has fun (and doesn’t spend the whole time in traffic), keep these four things in mind.

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The Geography Trap (Hamptons vs. The Rest)

Knowing the layout is half the battle. The South Fork (Hamptons/Montauk) is where you go for high-end beach clubs and celebrity spotting, but getting there is a trek. The North Fork (NoFo) is rustic, wine-heavy, and way more chill. Western and Central LI are more suburban and easier to get to from NYC, making them better for day trips rather than full weekends.

Region	The Vibe	Best For	Time from NYC (Penn Station)
South Fork (Hamptons/Montauk)	Luxury, expensive, high energy, “scene-y”.	Big budgets, nightlife lovers, beach days.	3.5 – 5 Hours (Train/Jitney)
North Fork (NoFo)	Farm-to-table, scenic, relaxed.	Wine tours, foodies, low-key groups.	2.5 – 3.5 Hours (Train/Car)
Western/Central LI	Suburban chic, accessible.	Single-day events, bridal showers.	45 Mins – 1.5 Hours (Train)

The “Traffic Trap” Scenario: You book an Airbnb in Riverhead to save money, but make a dinner reservation at The Surf Lodge in Montauk for 7:00 PM. On a Saturday in July, that drive can easily take 2.5 hours. By the time you arrive, you’ve missed your table, the bride is carsick, and you’ve blown the budget on a private car just to sit in traffic. Rule #1: Stay in the town where you plan to play.

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The Price Tag & Timing

Pricing is all over the place. The Hamptons in July/August commands prices that will make your eyes water—bottle service can run thousands. The North Fork is pricey but you generally get more bang for your buck. If you want better rates and fewer crowds, aim for May or October.

Defining the Vibe

Be honest about what the bride actually wants. Does she want a “club rat” experience or a “wellness retreat”? Long Island bachelorette party ideas usually fall into three buckets: The Party (Montauk clubs), The Classy Sip (North Fork wineries), or The Adventure (Boats/Spas). Don’t try to force a club night on a bride who just wants to drink Pinot Grigio in a barn.

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Getting Around

Do not rely on Uber once you get out east. Availability is spotty, especially late at night. For wine tours or bar hopping, hiring a private driver or party bus is basically mandatory. Plus, a lot of venues have strict rules for bachelorette groups, so showing up in an organized van often helps you get in the door.

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Transport is just one piece of the puzzle; for a deeper dive on managing the group (and the drama), read our tips for planning a bachelorette party.

Transport Mode	Est. Cost (Peak Season)	The Good	The Bad
Rideshare (Uber/Lyft)	Variable ($50-$150+ per short ride)	Flexible.	Super unreliable out east; surge pricing is brutal.
Private Sprinter Van	$150 – $250 per hour	Keeps everyone together, guaranteed ride home.	Expensive and needs booking months in advance.
LIRR (Train)	$22 – $30 per ticket	Traffic-free & cheap.	Fixed schedules; you still need a car once you arrive.
Hampton Jitney (Bus)	$30 – $50 per ticket	Comfy seats.	Stuck in the same traffic as the cars.

The Ultimate List: 25 Venues & Activities

Here are the top 25 venues and activities on Long Island for 2026. I’ve broken them down by vibe so you can build an itinerary that actually makes sense.

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Vineyards & Wine Country (The Classy Sip)

This is for the group that wants Instagrammable moments and sophisticated day drinking. The North Fork (and parts of the Hamptons) is famous for this.

Before you head out, make sure the group looks the part. Check out our guide on stunning winery outfits so you match the aesthetic.

1. Wölffer Estate Vineyard (Sagaponack)

The holy grail of Hamptons vineyards. Famous for “Summer in a Bottle” Rosé. You can hit the Wine Stand for casual vibes or the main estate for seated tastings. Note: You need to book exactly 14-30 days out, and they are strict about rowdy groups. Keep it classy here.

2. Sparkling Pointe (Southold)

If your group loves bubbly, this is the spot. It’s dedicated entirely to sparkling wines. The vibe is chic, bright, and perfect for photos. It’s a bit of a splurge, but worth it.

3. RGNY (Riverhead)

RGNY is cool because it’s interactive. They have “Blending Sessions” where you can create your own wine blend. Great if you want an activity that involves more than just sitting and sipping.

4. Macari Vineyards (Mattituck)

Known for their private tasting suites and luxury yurts. The pizza and charcuterie here are top-tier. The private suites are a lifesaver for bachelorettes because you have your own contained space to be loud in.

5. Bedell Cellars (Cutchogue)

Historic, beautiful, and features a massive deck with vineyard views. It feels very “old money” in a relaxed way. A great pick if the mother-of-the-bride is tagging along.

Nightlife & Day Clubs (The Party)

These spots are for the group that wants to dance, spend money, and be seen. Expect crowds, loud music, and a high energy bill.

6. The Surf Lodge (Montauk)

The quintessential Montauk hotspot. Famous for concerts and sunsets. Be warned: getting in is a sport. You need a table reservation or a serious connection. It gets incredibly crowded, but it’s an “experience.”

If Montauk is your main destination, don’t miss our list of Montauk bachelorette party ideas.

7. Gurney’s Montauk Beach Club (Montauk)

Oceanfront daybeds, DJ sets, and luxury service on the sand. It’s expensive. Like, really expensive. But if you split a cabana between 10 girls, it’s a manageable splurge for a luxury beach day.

8. Southampton Social Club (Southampton)

A hybrid venue—dinner transitions into a nightclub with bottle service. It’s a “one-stop-shop” which is great because you don’t have to herd cats (aka drunk bridesmaids) to a second location.

9. Flynn’s (Fire Island – Ocean Bay Park)

Famous for Sunday Funday. You have to take a ferry to get here. It’s casual, barefoot dancing, and home of the “Rocket Fuel” cocktail. Way looser and less pretentious than the Hamptons.

10. The Stephen Talkhouse (Amagansett)

A legendary dive bar/music venue. Everyone from Jimmy Buffett to Coldplay has played here. It’s gritty, crowded, and sweaty in the best way possible. Perfect for brides who hate “clubs” but love live music.

Wellness & Spa (The Detox)

Perfect for the “Detox before Retox” crowd. These are the best ways to recover from the night before.

11. Gurney’s Seawater Spa (Montauk)

Recently renovated and absolutely stunning. Seawater pools, Roman baths, the works. It’s a high-budget luxury, but great for a Friday afternoon before the chaos starts.

12. Salt Cave of Montauk (Montauk)

Halotherapy in a cave made of pink Himalayan salt. It’s super relaxing and aesthetic. Sessions are short (45-60 mins), making it the perfect hangover cure that doesn’t take all day.

The “Balanced Bride” Move: Schedule the Salt Cave for Saturday morning at 10 AM. It forces everyone to wake up, clears out the sinuses, and gives you a quiet hour where no one is allowed to speak. Follow it with a smoothie bowl, and you’re ready for round two.

13. AIREM (Syosset)

A medical-aesthetic spa that does private “glam” parties—facials, IV drips, skincare. Good for groups staying in Western LI.

14. Baker House 1650 (East Hampton)

An exclusive B&B with a private spa (pool, sauna, steam). It’s intimate and quiet. Best for smaller bridal parties who want privacy.

15. Mobile Massage/Yoga

Honestly? Sometimes the best spa is the one that comes to you. Hire a yoga instructor or massage therapist to come to your Airbnb. No travel time required.

Adventure & Water Activities (The Action)

For the active bride who gets bored sitting still.

16. Peconic Water Sports (Sag Harbor/Southold)

Wakesurfing, water skiing, and tubing charters. It requires physical effort, so maybe don’t do this hungover. Great for athletic groups.

17. Tiki Boat Long Island (Patchogue/Oakdale)

A floating tiki bar where you bring your own booze. It cruises the Great South Bay. It’s casual, fun, and definitely carries “booze cruise” energy.

18. Paddle Diva (East Hampton)

Stand Up Paddleboarding (SUP) tours. Beginner-friendly and the harbors are calm. A nice morning activity to burn off the brunch calories.

19. Long Island Boat Rentals (Port Washington)

Tour the “Great Gatsby” Gold Coast mansions from the water. It’s more historic/scenic than the beach party vibe.

20. Montauk Cycle Company (Montauk)

Spin classes or bike rentals to tour the lighthouse area. Good for fitness-focused groups (or those who just want a cute bike photo).

Activity	Sweat Level	“Hair & Makeup” Safety	Best For
Wakesurfing	High (You will fall)	Low (You will get soaked)	Adrenaline junkies.
Tiki Boat	Very Low	High (Safe for photos)	Party groups on a budget.
Paddleboarding	Medium (Core workout)	Medium (Risk of falling in)	Nature lovers.
Cycle Tour	Medium/High	Medium (Sweat factor)	Sightseeing.

Dining & Brunch (The Foodies)

For the “Ladies who Lunch” crew.

21. Navy Beach (Montauk)

Dining right on the sand. Famous for sunsets and seafood. One of the few places you can legally drink on the beach with table service.

22. Restoration Hardware (RH) Rooftop (Walt Whitman Shops)

Stunning architecture, chandeliers, rooftop garden. It’s in a mall (weirdly), but once you’re up there, it’s gorgeous. Great for a bridal shower.

23. Claudio’s Waterfront (Greenport)

Loud, energetic, live music. It’s a wharf-side staple. High energy and fun for day drinking.

24. Cowfish (Hampton Bays)

Rustic-chic spot on the canal. Great “Rum Bar” and brunch. A good middle ground geographically between NYC and Montauk.

25. The Shed (Huntington/West Sayville)

All-day brunch with a very cute aesthetic. Casual, affordable, and Instagram-ready without the Hamptons price tag.

Why You Might Need a Professional Bridesmaid

Scanning this list—from coordinating the sprinter van to securing an impossible table at The Surf Lodge—might have you feeling a little overwhelmed. The logistics of a Long Island bachelorette party are notoriously tough; traffic on Route 27 alone is enough to cause a breakdown.

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The Crisis Averted: Picture this: It’s 2 AM outside a club in East Hampton. Three girls are crying, one lost her phone, and Uber shows “No Cars Available.” The Maid of Honor is panic-dialing taxis that aren’t picking up. A Professional Bridesmaid would have already pre-booked private transport, holding a head-count checklist and water bottles, ensuring the group moves seamlessly from the dance floor to the van without the sidewalk meltdown.

Final Thoughts

Long Island has something for every type of bride, but the key to a successful weekend is in the planning. Understand the geography, be realistic about the budget, and match the venues to your group’s actual vibe (not just what looks good on TikTok). Book early, secure your ride, and don’t be afraid to ask for help if the logistics get too heavy.